| 02-07-05 I have a question for everyone: We can't leave our poodle, Scooby, loose in the house for more than a few hours at a time. No matter how hard we've tried to teach him otherwise, he will still lift his leg on whatever appeals to him when the need arises. We've tried gating him into the kitchen so he is on the vinyl floor and can't really hurt anything, but he hates it. He has escaped nearly every gate and for those he hasn't, he's tried to chew through either them or dig through the wall. The last | 
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           time we gated him, he dug at the (new) carpet by the backdoor
          trying to get out and really did a number on it.  We have an open
          wire crate and can put him in that, but I worry he will hurt himself
          or at least make himself sick.  He hates it so much and cries,
          chews, digs and carries on something awful when he's put in it. 
          He is absolutely drenched in slobber when we get home.  Does
          anyone have any ideas?
         
          Stacy
         
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              What gorgeous weather we've been having the
          last few days....plenty of sunshine and daytime temperatures in the
          40's and 50's.  We may even see 60 degrees today.  Very
          unusual for February, but we'll take it!  It sure has me thinking
          of Spring and getting out to "play" in the dirt.  A few
          of the seed catalogs have arrived and I've been pouring over them and
          making a wish list, but am not sure if we'll be gardening this year or
          not.  Our garden is located on my mom's property, which is behind
          ours, and everything depends on what Mom does.  She and John have
          been spending virtually all of their time at John's home on the ridge. 
          Mom is sure John will never give up or move from his home as he built
          it himself and his first wife's ashes were scattered over the field
          there.  Mom doesn't mind living there for now, but can't see
          herself staying there alone if something would happen to John. 
          For that reason, she doesn't want to give up her house.  However,
          she doesn't know what she wants to do with it.  She has talked
          about renting it.  I really don't know what else she could do
          with it.  No matter what, it's probably going to mean some major
          adjustments for us because of the garden and because Tim uses the
          large shed as his workshop.  We have no idea what we'd do with
          all his tools and stuff if he has to move it out of there.
         
              Tim finished up another construction project
          this past week.  I sure am glad that's over.  It was a very
          problematic job from beginning to end and then of course, the last
          couple of weeks leading up to the turnover are always a stress filled
          blur for him.  Everything turned out beautifully, though, and Tim
          collected many kudos from not only his employers but also from the
          company the project was built for.  He even found he'd gotten a
          substantial raise when he received his paycheck.  That sure is
          nice.  I was pleased to see him get some recognition for all his
          hard work.
         
              Saturday we all went to Pittsburgh Technical
          Institute for the housing tour.  Matthew will be starting classes
          there July 25 and this trip was to choose the apartment complex he
          will live in and pay the deposit.  The financial aid officers
          were also there to help you with all that stuff, too, but you had to
          have your completed tax return with you and we didn't as we've only
          just gotten the last of our information.  Thankfully, they told
          us when we do get it done we can call and they will do everything over
          the phone, we won't have to drive down again.  When we finished
          at the school we went to Golden Corral for a late lunch and then
          walked through IKEA.  I love that store!  We wanted to get
          measurements on a sofa we'd seen the last time we were there and Megan
          was just excited to go for the first time.....she's read through the
          catalog countless times decorating and redecorating her room in her
          imagination.
         
              Our church is hiring a Director of Youth
          Ministries and I've turned in my resume.  The job description is
          a little different, but not much, from what I did as a volunteer for
          several years.  I loved the work and the kids and would not have
          given it up if not for the church falling apart last year.  It
          would be a dream come true to be able to do it again....and to get
          paid for it?  Well, that'd just be icing on the cake. 
          To begin, it is a part-time job, only 17 hours a week and the pay
          would be slightly less than I make driving a school bus, but if I do
          get it I'll give up driving.  With Matt moving out this summer
          and Megan still having problems with school, it'd be nice to be able
          to be home to get her off to school more prepared and to be there when
          she gets home and keep her on track.
         
              Volleyball practice starts this week and this
          year we've got not only Matt playing, but Megan, too.  She
          decided to give the middle school girls' team a try.  I hope she
          likes it and sticks with it.  It will be good for her to be
          involved in something and hopefully, it will develop at least a little
          discipline in her.
         
              Well, I really have to head out to run some
          errands so must cut this short.  Have a great week and.....
         
          Carpe diem!
         
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