August 13
Money continues to be tight.
While lack of funds has sharply curtailed our spending, a few factors
remain active in making us feel the pinch. First, I am still on
summer vacation from my job driving a school bus so my income for a
few more weeks is limited to unemployment compensation (less than half
my regular
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pay). Second, gas prices are staying close to
$3/gallon, but Tim's travel to and from work has not decreased and has
actually increased somewhat due to his being responsible for 2 job
sites at the present time. He does get mileage for the travel
from site to site, but that is an almost miniscule portion of his
travel expenses. Third, there is just no getting a 14 year old
girl to understand the need to budget. Megan continues to pester
on a nearly daily basis for money to do things with friends or to
purchase some "must have" item.
I for one am not really minding
the forced frugality and simplicity. It's forced me, at least,
to slow down, spend more time at home and find enjoyment in the little
things. Since we finally got the invisible fence system we
bought months ago installed, one of my favorite pastimes has become
spending time in the yard with the dogs. They are having such a
wonderful time with their new freedom and are so fun to watch as they
race around the yard playing tag. They are equally content to
lie at my feet while I sit under the poplar tree (that I had never sat
under before) reading or just enjoying the flowers, birds and
butterflies. It reminds me of the times I spent with my Nana
sitting on her front porch early in the morning or swinging in the
backyard after supper. If only I could convince my family that
it's a nice way to pass the time. Much better than always
sitting in front of the television.
The garden is producing quite
nicely and with my mom and her husband away on vacation the
responsibility of it has fallen on me. This is at least one area
that Megan embraces. She loves nothing better than picking
peppers, tomatoes and zucchini. With all the veggies coming in
and the money staying out...our diet has changed a good bit these last
weeks, too. Gone are the processed quick and easy fixes and in
are simple meats and fresh vegetables and salads. I've been
experimenting and getting rather creative in my combinations. I
haven't won Megan over to healthy eating, but Tim hasn't complained
and has even been packing up the leftovers to take to work for his
lunch. It's a start.
Other than a few dollars here
and there for Megan to do things, we haven't needed to look for
entertainment. Tim took the fireplace out of the livingroom last
Sunday. It was much too large for the space and took up much
needed living space. I'll miss the fire this winter, but we're
going to look around to see if a tiny pellet stove we saw a few years
back is still available. It wasn't much bigger than a 5 gallon
bucket and resembled a pot-bellied stove. The salesman at the
time said it would heat 900-1000 sq. ft., more than enough to allow us
to turn down the thermostat. Knocking down all that stone made a
really big mess, but it cleaned up fairly easily and we've been
spending the evenings this week patching walls and of course the
ceiling where the chimney used to be. Hopefully, we'll be ready
to put a coat of primer on before the weekend and then paint next
weekend.
Another thing I've been keeping
busy with is my new Avon business. I've been reading an awful
lot of training literature and taking online training courses with the
hope of creating a successful side business. I'd have to say I'm
operating in the red at the moment, but that's because to get started
I'm investing in demo's and other special package deals to build up my
inventory in preparation for a Christmas Open House at the beginning
of November. I am getting orders and they are increasing with
every campaign, both in number and in size of sale, so that's a good
thing. I have a website, www.yourAVON.com/SArtis,
that I'm beginning to promote in the hope of gaining more customers
based on the convenience of ordering any time day or night and being
able to choose to have the product delivered right to your door.
I've been looking online for
sources of money saving tips and one of the best places I've found is ClubMom.com.
It's a site for women to share their knowledge on a wide variety of
different subjects. There are tons of articles from experts in
every subject and also forums and blogs for regular women to share
their insights. It's a really helpful site. I've found a
couple of friends, learned a lot of great things and even joined a
coupon exchange!
One thing that has made
tightening up the ol' belt a little easier is my new attitude.
Rather than looking at a financial rough spot as a disaster, I'm
viewing it as a challenge and finding ways to beat the challenge is
turning out to be rather empowering. Not a bad present for my
42nd birthday.
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